April often brings financial questions to the surface. For many individuals and families in North Carolina, that may include taxes, support, shared expenses, and access to important financial records. During separation or divorce, these issues can feel overwhelming, but understanding them is an important step forward.
This month, consider reviewing one part of your financial picture, such as a tax return, pay stubs, a monthly budget, support records, or shared accounts. You do not need to solve everything at once, but greater understanding can help you make informed decisions.
Because April is Financial Literacy Month, it is a good reminder to ask the money questions you may have been avoiding. The more informed you are, the more prepared you may be to move forward with confidence.
A Refined Resource for High-Conflict Custody Matters
In high-conflict custody matters, a court order may provide the framework, but not always the stability. When communication remains strained and day-to-day parenting decisions continue to trigger conflict, families may benefit from a more structured and responsive level of support.
Parenting coordination is designed to help address those ongoing challenges by creating a neutral process for navigating implementation issues with greater consistency and less disruption. It can be a valuable resource for families seeking a more workable way to move forward after litigation or court intervention.
Triangle Divorce Lawyers is proud to offer this service through Alice Womack, Scott Allen, and Robin Strickland, certified Parenting Coordinators whose family law experience, professionalism, and practical insight bring added strength to this role.
For families facing continued conflict after a custody order is in place, parenting coordination may be an important next step.
If you are facing divorce, child custody, child support, spousal support, or property division in North Carolina, you may have heard the answer, “it depends.” While that may feel frustrating at first, our latest blog explains why that response is often the most accurate and helpful place to begin. In family law, the facts matter. Timing, financial records, parenting schedules, documentation, and the details of your situation may all affect your options and next steps.
This blog breaks down why “it depends” is not a vague answer or a brush-off. It is often a sign that your situation deserves careful attention and a strategy based on the facts. If you want to better understand what may affect your case, what information matters, and how to move forward with a clearer plan, this is a valuable place to start.
We are pleased to welcome Kristen Longmire, Associate Attorney, to Triangle Divorce Lawyers.
Kristen represents clients in a range of North Carolina family law matters, including child custody, child support, spousal support, equitable distribution, separation agreements, and prenuptial agreements. She brings experience in litigation, negotiation, and case management, along with a thoughtful, steady approach that helps clients feel informed and supported.
We are proud to have Kristen on our team as we continue serving individuals and families across Raleigh, Cary, Wake Forest, Clayton, and surrounding North Carolina communities.
Sometimes peace of mind starts with better information. If questions about the house, the mortgage, or what comes next have been weighing on you, join us for our Homeownership & Divorce Workshop for a thoughtful conversation designed to help you feel more informed and more prepared.
We are proud to share that Nathan Gudeman of Triangle Divorce Lawyers has been recognized by Super Lawyers as an Up-and-Coming Lawyer for the second consecutive year. This recognition reflects his dedication to serving clients with professionalism, care, and trusted guidance in North Carolina family law matters.
We are grateful to have Nathan on the Triangle Divorce Lawyers team and proud to celebrate this well-earned honor.
Separation can bring an immediate wave of financial questions, especially in the first 30 days. This month, Triangle Divorce Lawyers is featuring a practical article to help North Carolina families take early financial steps with more structure and less overwhelm.
In What to Do Financially in the First 30 Days of Separation: A Practical Checklist, readers will find guidance on organizing records, reviewing expenses, monitoring accounts, and planning for the road ahead.
If you are contemplating separation, already in the middle of a divorce, or feeling overwhelmed by “what ifs,” this workshop offers practical information you can use right away. You are welcome to attend, listen, and ask questions at your own comfort level.
Join us on Saturday, April 11th, 2026.
Robin Strictland, Esq. | Legal Guidance | Triangle Divorce Lawyers
Not every new beginning starts online. Sometimes it starts with getting dressed, going somewhere lovely, and being open to one good conversation. Pre-Dating’s Raleigh/Durham events at The Durham Hotel offer age-specific evenings designed to help local singles meet in person through a series of brief, face-to-face conversations in a relaxed setting. The local page notes options for singles in their 30s and 40s, 40s and 50s, 50+, and 50s/60s.
Life doesn’t pause during legal transition - and sometimes the right professional can make all the difference. That’s why our team is glad to connect you with trusted local partners, including:
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Notes: Referrals are provided as a courtesy; we do not receive compensation for recommendations. This information is educational and not legal advice
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