Client, here are May resources, updates, and community support you may find helpful. ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­    ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏  ͏ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­ ­  
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A Message from Mary Gurganus

 

May is a time of transition for many North Carolina families. As school ends and summer begins, parenting schedules, travel plans, childcare, and custody arrangements may need a closer look.

 

In this month’s Compass, we are sharing resources to help families plan ahead, support children through change, and stay connected to trusted community resources. We also pause this Memorial Day to honor the brave men and women who gave their lives in service to our country.

 

Whether you are preparing for summer, navigating separation or custody questions, or looking for the next right step, we hope this edition helps you feel informed and supported.

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Welcome Esther Bowman!

 

We are excited to welcome Esther Bowman as the newest Associate Attorney at Triangle Divorce Lawyers.

 

Esther brings a thoughtful, client-centered approach to family law, with a focus on clear communication, practical problem-solving, and helping clients feel informed as they navigate important decisions.

Earlier this month, our team also had the honor of sponsoring Esther ahead of her swearing-in, a meaningful milestone as she begins this next chapter of her legal career.

Please join us in welcoming Esther to Triangle Divorce Lawyers.

 

 

Please join us in welcoming Esther to Triangle Divorce Lawyers.

 

Meet Esther Bowman

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Military Retirement Benefits

in a North Carolina Divorce

 

Military retirement benefits can be a major financial issue in divorce. In North Carolina, retirement pay earned during the marriage may be considered marital property, but dividing it often involves state law, federal rules, and specific court order requirements.

 

This blog explains what service members and spouses may need to know before making decisions about military retirement benefits.

 

How are military retirement benefits divided in a North Carolina divorce?

 

Read the full blog here

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What Co-Parents Should Review Before School Ends

 

Before school lets out, take time to review your custody order or parenting agreement so both households understand what to expect.

 

Co-parents may want to confirm:

Summer parenting time

Vacation notice requirements

Camp, childcare, and activity costs

Travel rules and passport details

Exchange times and locations

Parent-child communication during longer visits

 

Have questions about your summer custody schedule or parenting plan?

You may consider connecting with our team.

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Circle of Security Parenting Classes

 

Divorce, separation, and custody changes can be hard on children, even when parents are doing their best to support them.

 

Mind & Body Therapeutic Connections in Garner is offering Circle of Security Parenting, an 8-week virtual class that helps parents and caregivers better understand their child’s emotional needs, support emotional regulation, and strengthen the parent-child connection.

 

Beginning in late June, Hannah Whitley, LCSW, will facilitate this class for parents and caregivers of children from newborns through adolescence.

 

Learn more and register here

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Tina Bailey of BuildHer

Sometimes the most powerful support starts with simply being informed.

 

In a recent Johnston Now Magazine article, Tina Bailey of BuildHer shares important insight into domestic violence, why survivors may stay, and how friends and family can offer meaningful support without judgment.

For anyone looking to better understand domestic violence support and survivor resources, this article is worth reading and sharing.

 

Read the article and learn more about BuildHer

 

If you know someone navigating a difficult situation,

this article is worth reading and sharing.

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Divorce, custody matters, and family transitions can be stressful.

Sometimes, you need a healthy way to step away and reset.

iSmash Wake Forest offers rage rooms, paint splatter, axe throwing, and group experiences designed for stress relief and fun.

Explore iSmash

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Join Our FREE Online Divorce Workshop

 

You are welcome to attend, listen, and ask questions at your own comfort level.

 

Join us on Saturday, June 13th, 2026.

 

Sheneshia Fitts, Esq. - Triangle Divorce Lawyers

Molly Goetz - Greenspring Advisors

Sarah Hudson -  Brinkley Brown Mental Wellness

 

Sign-Up for our next workshop!

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Life doesn’t pause during legal transition - and sometimes the right professional can make all the difference. That’s why our team is glad to connect you with trusted local partners, including:

Financial Advisors, Realtors, Therapists, Private Investigators & more.

 

Just reply to this email with the service you’re looking for.

We’ll be happy to connect you.

 

Notes: Referrals are provided as a courtesy; we do not receive compensation for recommendations. This information is educational and not legal advice

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Need information about Family Law?

Visit our Triangle Divorce Lawyers YouTube channel to explore short, attorney-led videos that break down common questions in a clear, approachable way. Most are under 3 minutes, so you can learn at your own pace, whenever it fits your day.

 

Know someone who could benefit from this information?

Forward this newsletter and help them stay informed.

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If we’ve guided you through a difficult time, we’d be grateful if you shared your experience. Your review not only means a lot to our team - it also helps other families find trusted support when they need it most.

Click here to leave us a Google review

 

When family dynamics shift, Triangle Divorce Lawyers is the steady hand you need. Proudly serving families across Raleigh, Cary, Wake Forest, Clayton and surrounding areas in matters of divorce, custody, alimony, and more.

 

This is your TDL community newsletter - created to inform, support, and connect. If you found it helpful, please pay it forward to someone who could use a fresh start.

 

Warm regards,
The Team at Triangle Divorce Lawyers 

 

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