Earlier this month, something quietly powerful passed through Raleigh, the Walk for Peace. Watching that steady, unhurried pace was a reminder that peace is not a slogan, it’s a practice, one step at a time.
February can bring big emotions and big questions to the surface, especially for families navigating separation, divorce, custody, or financial change. I often see how overwhelming it feels when everything seems urgent at once. But I also see what happens when someone slows down just enough to get grounded, gather the right information, and take the next step with intention.
A long walk is completed through consistency, patience, and support. If you are facing a major change right now, I hope you will give yourself permission to move at a pace that is steady and sustainable. Step by step is still forward.
This month, we’re honoring Ruth Whitehead Whaley, a remarkable attorney born in Goldsboro, North Carolina, whose work helped open doors for generations to come.
In 1925, she passed the New York bar and became one of the earliest Black women to practice law in New York. In 1933, she became the first Black woman licensed to practice law in North Carolina, a milestone achieved during a time when barriers were built to keep talented people out.
Her impact is still recognized today through the honors that carry her name. At Fordham Law, students in the top 25 percent of each class are honored as Ruth Whitehead Whaley Scholars. The Black Law Students Association also bestows an annual Ruth Whitehead Whaley Trailblazing Alumnus Award, recognizing alumni who embody her bold spirit and commitment to excellence.
Her story is a reminder that progress is often made by people who refuse to quit, even when the path is steep.
Awareness Spotlight: Teen Dating Violence Awareness
This February, we wanted to gently bring attention to Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. Dating abuse can show up early, and it often starts as control, not physical harm. For parents navigating separation, divorce, or child custody changes, routines and support systems can shift, so consistent check-ins and open conversation matters.
love is respect is a free, confidential resource for teens and young adults (and the people who care about them) with questions about healthy relationships and dating abuse. It’s a project of the National Domestic Violence Hotline, and support is available 24/7 by phone, text, and live chat.
Text LOVEIS to 22522
Call 866-331-9474
Live chat online
If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911. Educational information only, not legal advice.
Free Online Estate Planning Workshop
If something happened tomorrow, would your loved ones know what to do next?
Join us for a free, one-hour online estate planning workshop focused on the essentials of wills, trusts, and planning ahead. You’ll leave with a clearer understanding of the documents that may be part of an estate plan, the decisions that matter most early on, and how planning can help reduce stress and uncertainty for your family.
Presented by Sheneshia Fitts, Senior Attorney at Triangle Estate Lawyers.
We’ll cover:
What is estate planning?
Goals of estate planning
Will-centered plans vs. revocable living trust plans
If you are navigating divorce, separation, or the end of a significant relationship, having the right support around you can make a meaningful difference. A local option to explore is the Divorce Recovery Workshop led by Susan Lester at Integration Wellness in Raleigh, NC.
Starts: March 2, 2026
What Participants Can Expect
Guided program based on Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends
Book + workbook included
Supportive group community and structured learning
Want an easy way to fill your calendar with low-cost fun around Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill? Triangle on the Cheapkeeps a frequently updated list of free and budget-friendly kids and family events.
Join Our FREE Online Second Saturday Divorce Workshop
If you are contemplating separation, already in the middle of a divorce, or feeling overwhelmed by “what ifs,” this workshop offers practical information you can use right away. You are welcome to attend, listen, and ask questions at your own comfort level.
Join us on Saturday, February 14th, 2026. At this workshop, you will hear from:
Real Estate Guidence with Bill Riccadonna
Financial Advisor Ivan Ellis
Attorney Justin Nichols with Triangle Divorce Lawyers
Life doesn’t pause during legal transition - and sometimes the right professional can make all the difference. That’s why our team is glad to connect you with trusted local partners, including:
Financial Advisors, Realtors, Therapists, Private Investigators & more.
Just reply to this email with the service you’re looking for.
We’ll be happy to connect you.
Notes: Referrals are provided as a courtesy; we do not receive compensation for recommendations. This information is educational and not legal advice.
Need information about North Carolina divorce and custody topics?
Visit our Triangle Divorce Lawyers YouTube channel to explore short, attorney-led videos that break down common questions in a clear, approachable way. Most are under 3 minutes, so you can learn at your own pace, whenever it fits your day.
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